I have lost count over the years of how many times I have had this conversation with female friends. It usually starts harmlessly enough blah blah blah sex with the bf hubby or a lover only for the question of the big or little O to come up.
Yes I mean Orgasm, I am shocked how many women do not know their own bodies, I mean Cosmo actively encourages you to not only take a mirror and look but also to touch and feel and find out what feels best for you.
Shocking I know right, but I have seriously had the conversation with women old enough to be my mother and young enough to be and including my sister. It came up again recently in conversation and I know embarrassing and hard as it is to talk about it seemed like a good topic for a blog and so here I am.
There are some valid points to the knowing your body thing, think about this how can you expect someone else to be able to get you to orgasm if you can’t do it for yourself?
So many religions, parents and other places tell us that masturbation is a sin or wrong or something only “sluts” do, but in truth men do it all the time it is expected and natural. Yet for women it is hidden and secret and shameful. When it should be as natural as expecting that a man masturbates.
Not saying we should all shout it from the rooftops, but encourage the women we know (and I am sure every single one of you reading this blog know at least one woman who has never had an orgasm) to know their own bodies.
Romance yourself take the time to really understand what makes your body sing, be it a romantic candlelit bath and slathering yourself with luscious indulgent body butter, reading erotic fiction or losing yourself into your favourite secret fantasy or some other thing that floats your boat. It is time that as woman you knew yourself intimately.
I know for every single woman this journey is different and that it is not easy for some. I am not going to go into how to’s etc cause seriously am sure Google has plenty of information for you (just be careful when you search)
This is more a hey, it’s about time that we as women claimed all our personal power and there is no greater power or freedom than in knowing and glorying in our own bodies , in relishing in the freedom that gives us. It is time to get comfortable and intimate in your own skin.
Walk around naked
Explore your body
Be Proud of the Goddess you are
And best yet, tease, tantalise and please your body, If you have never had the big or little ‘O’ don’t you think it’s time you took matters into your own hands?
Till next we meet on life’s journey may your world become orgasmic!
In Love and Light